What attracts you?

I have always wondered why I’m attracted to big strong men, a less attracted to skinny men. My husband had to be physical strong, big arms/shoulders (check, check,& check) like a protector. We are attracted to people that enhance our welling being (survival mode); it’s called the science of sex appeal. There is a mixtures of things that contribute to why we are attracted to certain people (i.e.cultural values, upbringing, and biology). Pheromones are responsible for why men love seeing a women with a beautiful hourglass figure and women enjoy the strong chest of a man. 

When men see a curvaceous body’s, small waist, big hips there animalistic instinct of mating comes into play. Men associate shapely women with women that are a good build for childbearing. Men are hardwired to populate earth, that’s right spread their seeds.

Women are also hardwired,we look for muscles, broad shoulders (oh YEAH), and strong chest.  These are traits that indicate high level of testosterone, you know a manly manly.  A man that has an appearance of a being strong, can be seen as healthy and a protectors.

So what are you attracted? Big arms? Big shoulders? Big breast? Big hips? Come on lets hear it.............

 

 

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Brazilian wax vs. The Bush

I had to write this blog, because I don’t like hair DOWN THERE or anywhere else besides the hair on someones head. I have never been attracted to hairy men, NEVER ever.

I remember my first shaving experience I was in junior high and I shaved my arm pits at a friend’s house. Every since then I couldn’t contain my desire to be hairless, everywhere (excluding my head). I love being hairless, it makes me feel super clean and so sexy. The Brazilian wax (anus, perineum and vagina), is my best friend, I don’t want a landing strip, or no other designs just take every off. Rather waxing or shaving your pubic hair its good hygiene.

I’m baffled; I mean really I don’t understand why people don’t shave their pubic hair. Some women/men enjoy having “the bush” why? What are the benefits? It just seems dirty and full of sweaty odors. And, when you have kinky pubic hair that’s more reason to Whack-it-off.

Ok so I Googled it
Here are some benefits of having “the bush”:
(1) Sexually stimulating scents called pheromones
(2)Protects against bacterial infections

I want to dance for my man

Ladies do you dance for your man? I CHALLENGE you to start.

I would LOVE to give my husband a lap dance, but I am not the confident “YET” (key word yet). I really like Beyonce’s song and video “Dance for you”, it’s super sexy. After watching Beyonce’s video, I’m thinking “I can do that” #Fail, she makes it look so easy.

I have been thinking that I want to dance for my husband sooner, than later. Here is my dilemmas, I’m self conscious of my body after 2 kids(this is an excuse…I know), but I don’t really know how to dance. And, I want to be completely comfortable when I dance for Mitch, so how do I build that level of confidence…Hmmmm. It’s time to find a striptease class, to learn some sexy moves and build some confidence.

Besides, I think lap dances are hott; I’ve had a few lap dances myself. You don’t have to be an exotic dancer to give lap dances; you can be a regular plain Jane. Lap dance is simple you need to feel and look sexy, move your hips, and tease him……….I think RIGHT?

Do you dance for your Boo Thang? Do you have some tips for me?    

  

I will keep you posted on the outcome, on my striptease class. I’m bringing SEXY back!!!! 

Click here to see Beyonce "Dance for you" Video.