Do you "BW"?
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Boob
Watchin
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Booty
Watchin
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Bulge
Watchin
· Bicep
Watchin
Signs that you maybe a lusting if: (1) If your gaze
lingers to long (staring), (2) if you take a double-look it’s safe to stay you’re
lusting, and (3) replaying it in your head
later. Some men are so disrespectful they didn’t not even trying to be discreet
about it when you’re around, make we wonder how bold is he when you are not
present? Remember looking is just a casual glance and admiring
in a nonsexual way.
Lusting sometimes happen when: (1)
you’re not being sexually intimate for a period of time (it’s easier to have carelessly
and inappropriately wandering thoughts), (2) dissatisfaction with you and your
marriage, (3) Fantasies about being with other women/men.
Many of us raised
to believe that lusting is WRONG, in which I agree, but its normal (human
nature). You are born with an instinct to be
attracted to women/men, and that doesn't disappear magically because you’re
married. However, as mature
committed adults we have to learn to control/train our thoughts. Men are visual
creatures they love looking at beautiful women, but they also have to ability
to choose their actions. Equally, women enjoy looking at deliciously handsome men.
Although, you are in great relationship/marriage that doesn't
mean that you're not going to be attracted to opposite someone of the sex.
If you are BW'ing", please remember don't be disrespectful, we have all been guilty at one point or another.
2 comments:
I don't think if you stare/look to long, you have to be lusting. For me, I enjoy looking at Gods beautiful creatures (MEN). But at no time am I lusting over the individual. I admire a beautiful smile, being well groomed/dressed & a fit upper body. Those things are attractive to me in a man.
I think because I'm in love with my husband & he is the only man that sexually excites me, lusting on my part has never been an issue. Now for him, he has been slapped in the back of the head for what I think is looking to long. He's a Butt man. But I never had the feeling that he is lusting over the individual he may be looking at. I think it all depends on how well you know your mate.
Question. When your watching porn, is that lust? If so I might be a luster. If not you might need to get better porn.
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