I thought it
would be nice to generate a list to share with women on “What men want women to
know”. So for the past week I have been picking the brains of my hubby, coworkers,
and guys friends; I found a lot of similarities in their responses. OK ladies, get
your notepads ready here is the finished product:
The Top 9 "Things men want women to know" (Part I):
1 1. Men don’t care about your body insecurities.
If you have gained
weight and you’re insecure about your body (i.e. stomach, legs, stretch marks,
etc) chances are your spouse probably still thinks you’re sexy. When he’s ready
for sex he focuses on the things that excites them breast, butt, hips, etc.
Women can kill a romantic mood being insecure about their body.
2. Men enjoy having sex with the lights
ON. They are visual
individuals. They want to see it all ladies even the parts you may desperately try
to hide.
3 3. Men HATE when women see oral sex as
a chore. Let’s be realistic
men really LOVE oral sex, even if you don’t like oral sex just act like you do.
Ladies when you are feeling extra frisky or you may have had a little too much
to drink try surprise him with some neck action (oral sex).
4 4. Men find it difficult to maintain eye
contact if your boobs are on display. Any sexual visual a man can get he’s running with it.
5. Men want more SEX. Men have a strong urge to feel
needed, that’s why they always need sex. Nope, it’s not physical; men need to
feel needed and desired by the opposite sex.
6 6. Don’t let yourself go. You don’t have to look like a supermodel
and you may have gained 10 pounds or 20 pounds, he still wants you to look and feel
sexy as you did the first day you met.
7 7. Compliment your men. Men like to feel attractive too, but
make sure it’s genuine ladies.
8 8. Initiate Sex MORE. It is true that men love the chase,
but sometimes they need to feel wanted too. So ladies start initiating sex a
little more, send him a nasty dirty sexting message.
9. Have
your own life. Its fun doing things together,
but having your own activities, hobbies (shopping), friends, or just a girl’s night
out is highly recommended. Being apart from your spouse is a good thing; but, you
have to find something to help you maintain your good balance.
Goodbye for now,
