Separate Vacations

Is it ok for your husband/wife to go on an annual trip to Vegas with his/her friends?

Mitch and his buddies take an annual weekend man trip to Vegas EVERY year. Sometimes I seriously have mixed emotions about this “Man Trip”. I mean really….. is it a “Man Trip” or a “Boy Trip” Hmmmmmmmm…….Don’t get me wrong I really support male bonding, I think it’s needed.

My outlook on separate vacations is simple; we are all individuals and sometimes need time away from our reality. Although, you’re married, that doesn’t mean you’re conjoined twins. Besides a weekend with the girls, doing a little retail therapy and spa treatments can be rejuvenating.

Here is my problem with separate vacations or the “Man Trip” when it extends beyond 2 days (Houston we have a problem), Really?!?!?! 2 days should be the max….SORRY. If the image that comes to mind is your spouse at a strip club, club, dancing there a$$ off, being drunk & acting stupid (which is typical of people in their 20s), then that is what your spouse’s image is of you & your friends in Vegas. Since that behavior tends to lead to poor judgment and isn’t the actions of a married man or woman. This can cause resistance for your spouse and may lead to misinterpretation of separate vacations or the “Man Trip”.

When individuals are mature a separate vacations or “Man Trip” will consist of things that shows better judgement (i.e. playing golf, going to the movies, smoke cigars, catching a football game, NASCAR races, camping, or going fishing) this reduce any resistances, misinterpretation, and/or conflict.

Kama Sutra anyone?

Look what I found in my closet, that's right my Kama Sutra book. Hmmm.......(I'm thinking where is my husband). As I looked through the book and admire the different sex positions. And I fell in love with this position, this position is so sexy (pics below).

Sometimes the bedroom can get really boring, it's up to you to implement some creativity. Different positions, locations, toys, porn movies, and strip clubs can be a good way to maintain a healthy sexual relationship. Sex should be FUN and adventurous, not dull and boring. Changing sexual positions can be really fun and exciting. You can buy sexual positions Apps for your smart phone, NO excuses for a boring sex life.

So I challenge you to spice up your sex life, buy some new toys, go with your hubby to a strip club,
practice some new positions (i.e. Pinwheel).
SEXY, SEXY

Have FUN, having SEX!!

Whats your Sexy?

What’s your Sexy?

Sexy Diva vs. Laidback Sexy

There is no secret that I am not a sexy diva by any means, I just didn’t get that gene. A sexy diva requires a great deal of attention and goes through excessive effort to maintain her sexy (beauty, style, and image). Being a sexy diva is a life style, you walk it, you talk it, you wear it, and you live it. My girlfriends and I love to people watch and point out sexy divas, it sounds really silly right? No! It’s Fun and Funny, it’s just our thing.  We are the total opposite of a sexy diva, we are more chill laidback sexy.

I’m a laidback sexy, is my everyday look......

What kind of sexy are you?  Sexy Diva, Laidback, or half & half?

These are Pics of Sexy Diva-Beyonce

These are pics of Laidback Sexy-Halle Berry